So today, as i was sitting in Starbucks with my friend and her baby, we were talking about her current situation between this guy and this chick who's been a desperate psychopath with the guy, and it dawned on me, a lot of girls are like this, even if its mild to extreme.
here's a guide on what not to do and you'll be fine.
[most of these things i'm writing about are based from guys i know]
Rule #1: DON'T BLOW UP HIS PHONE if it's one thing most guys i know hate it when girls send them like 50 text messages in 30 minutes, or call them like 50 times in that same time, text the guy once and he'll text back if he wants to talk to you, and if he doesn't then he obviously doesn't want to talk with you. You need to get the picture, and give him time, don't expect him to answer right away! Or within the the half hour, you know they might be busy [even if they are just playing xbox or ps3]
Rule #2: DON'T BE CLINGY this is probably one thing guys also hate besides their phones being blown up. Don't be so clingy, don't possessive over him, especially if he's not your boyfriend [which at this point he's most likely not]. And don't be so bossy, guys hate when girls tell them what to do where to go or who to talk to, and when they are out with their boys, then let them be. Especially if your always around him. HE NEEDS HIS SPACE!
Rule #3: DON'T ALWAYS BE JEALOUS when he is talking to other girls. Jealousy never ends well, it makes you look really bad and its a turn off to guys. Guy's do have friends that are girls, whether you like it or not, and they are not going to stop talking to these girls, even if they are just random girls on the street or in the club. Put yourself in their shoes, you wouldn't want them to get jealous when you talk to other guys, so don't get jealous when they talk to other girls. Simple as 1, 2, 3.
Rule #4: DON'T NAG HIM SO MUCH your just a girl he's talking to [this also applies to girlfriends] he already has one mom [or in some cases two] no need to be his other mom. Guys hate it when girls nag because of that. Sure give them some criticism, but don't over do it. You don't want to kill him by nagging him by being all like "Johnny do this"..."Johnny do that"..."Johnny don't forget this" yadda yadda yadda...
Rule #4: DON'T BUG HIM WHILE HE'S PLAYING HIS GAME STATION OR INSTRUMENT, doing that is like taking the cake away from the fat kid. He's the fat kid [figuratively speaking (unless he really is) and the game station or instrument his is double chocolate chocolate chip cake with chocolate gnache and fondant (haha and yes this is a dream chocolate cake for me) :)] don't talk to him if you're by him, don't stand in front of the t.v. or unplug the amp, don't call or text him back a bunch of times while he is. He will most likely call you after. Just like how you wouldn't want him to while you're shopping or getting your nails done or whatever it is most of you girls do.
Rule # 5: DON'T STAKE OUT HIS HOUSE (which this leads to number 6 and incorporates number 1) don't be that psychopath chick that stakes out the guys house, or drives by it a thousand times, and then call him to make sure he is home or to prove to him that he lied to you if he said he was but wasn't.
soo...
Rule #6: DON'T BE A STALKER most of us have watched jersey shore, don't be like danielle [or whatever her name was] from season one who basically stalked Pauly D everywhere, I mean, of course there are levels of degrees of stalking, but still stalking is stalking, and this is just well desperate and psychopathic put together!
and last but not least:
Rule #6: DON'T SAY THOSE 3 WORDS AFTER A WEEK...now this...this just tops the icing on the cake, don't go and tell a guy that you love him if you've barely known each other [i mean for me i've only said it to two guys and it was like after a year of knowing him!] if you do this...that word, is not to be said so soon especially if your not with him...
so, if you've done all 6 of these to one guy well CONGRATULATIONS YOU ARE KNOWN AS THE CREEPY PSYCHOPATHIC STALKER TO ALL OF HIS FRIENDS! :D
haha now i know this is one of my longest blogs, but i hope it helps you not make those mistakes...
and if you guys have any adds or suggestions just let me know :D
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