I always hear men talking about what the women always do wrong in the relationships, but whats funny is they never talk about what THEY do wrong...
NEWSFLASH: YOU MEN ARE NOT PERFECT!
so here are somethings you shouldn't do
WARNING: All these are from MY past experience, but I'm sure this is true for a lot of people..
Don't try to control your girlfriend: Ok, so this is what irks me...you men need to stop trying to control us like we're your property. This is the one problem I've had with men. You are their boyfriends, not their fathers or brothers. Don't tell them what they can or cannot wear, who to talk to, where to go, what time to come home, yadda yadda yadda. SHES YOUR GIRLFRIEND..NOT YOUR BITCH.
Don't be clingy: It's funny, usually we have the girls being the "clingy" type, but i swear i've seen some clingy guys. Stop calling/texting every 2 seconds. If a girl tells you she'll call or text you later, she will no need to text or call her every two seconds and then message her on facebook.
Don't confuse infatuation with LOVE: haha this one actually makes me laugh. I've seen guys who gets a girlfriend and then after like a week he's "in love" with her and how shes his wifey and what not, and then like break up a week later then the following week gets another girlfriend that hes "in love" with. I kinda find this the pathetic type. I mean get real, you don't fall in love with someone in less than a week, and you just look desperate.
Don't be pushy: if your girlfriend doesn't want to have sex, or blow you or whatever (especially in the beginning stages of your relationship, or even if she's had sex before) then don't push her. If you push her into doing something she doesn't want to do, otherwise it's not going to be enjoying for either of you, and she just might not have much respect for you after. You have to let it happen at the right moment, even if its 6 months or a year after!
THE OBVIOUS...Don't lie or cheat: I mean OBVIOUSLY you shouldn't cheat or lie to your girlfriend...otherwise don't even bother having a girlfriend. If you do this, you'll look like an idiot and a douchebag...NOTE TO THE FEMALES: IF A MAN CHEATS ON HIS GIRL WITH YOU AND LEAVES HER FOR YOU...DON'T BE SURPRISED WHEN HE DOES THE SAME TO YOU.
Don't flirt with girls or get their number when your out with your boys: ok, we get it, you need to spend time with your boys, but don't be flirting with the other girls and getting their numbers when you go out.
ya well this is all i could think of right now. but dont worry ill DEFINITELY post another with more don'ts hehe.
in the meantime just repeat this phrase over and over again: I AM YOUR BOYFRIEND, NOT HITLER. :D
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